Games and Ideas to Spark Up Your Sex Life

• The next time you’re out for dinner, try to spice things up a bit. Remember passing notes in class? Well, when you go out for dinner, bring a pen along. Write naughty suggestions on the napkins and swap them with each other.

• Try a little bit of foot play under the table. When you’re at a restaurant table with a long tablecloth, play with your partner’s genitals using your feet. Bring him or her to an orgasm. Turn things up a notch: don’t stop stimulating even when the waiter is taking your 0rder.

• Before you go out for dinner, tell your partner exactly what you want to do to them in the sack. Use dirty talk to really up the tease factor – then go out for dinner. The anticipation will make the sex even better.

• Write a detailed, naughty, suggestive note on a piece of paper – be imaginative! Bring it along with you to the restaurant. Then, tell the waiter to slip it to your partner while you’re eating. The reaction will be priceless.

• Blindfold your lover, but make it extra special. Prepare sexy food like strawberries, chocolate and cream. Prepare this beforehand. Then, have your partner guess what you’re feeding to them. It helps if you dress up like a waiter so you can add a bit of role play to the mix.

• Eat off sexy food of your partner’s body. You can blindfold your partner, or you can give them a show. While whipped cream is the most popular choice for this option, it can get pretty overrated. If you want to try another view, eat some of your favorite, juicy fruit and arrange it over your partner’s naked body.

• Think of new uses for the ice cube. Use it to play with your partner’s body. Kick up the sensations by slowly tracing a line with the ice on your lover’s body. Then, blow.

• When you’re out on the town, pretend you don’t know each other. Have your partner go to the bar or restaurant early. Then, talk to him or her like you’re trying to introduce yourself. Flirt like you’ve just known each other. This will make the anticipation almost unbearable.

• Undress your partner with your teeth and mouth. You can turn this into a game by timing who gets the other naked faster. The winner should get a prize: whatever he or she wants in the sack.

• Try to see who knows – and can execute – the best sex positions. You can also look at how many positions you can try in a small amount of time.

• Use a vibrator to stimulate your partner without touching his or her genitals. Use the vibrator to tease your partner, coming close to the nipples and genitals but never touching them. This will drive your lover wild with lust. Tease until they can’t take it anymore. The anticipation will make the penetration hotter than ever. You can also blindfold your partner to make the sensations more intense.