How to Make Your Man Feel Sexy

Men want to feel sexy too, but not in the same way women do. Women forget that men have egos that need stroking as well – bigger ones at that! It’s always important to make your partner feel desirable and appreciated. Although it may not seem like a big deal to some, in a healthy relationship, if you want to keep things mutual, you need to take that extra step to make your man feel special. Some women simply do not know how to do this. Some even feel intimidated by the idea, but it’s very simple.

Take baby steps if you are not that comfortable yet. The key is to feel comfortable and sexy enough to take control of your sex life. Suggest new sex positions. You can find a lot of new sex positions for every location. Kama sutra is one of the most popular and basic books that can help you be more imaginative in bed. Don’t be afraid to initiate the sex as well. You don’t have to do anything drastic, start with simple seduction. Men aren’t that hard to seduce, as they take a shorter time to get aroused. Give him a view of our body and you’re sure to make him happy. This lets him know that you want him enough to initiate sex.

Also, do not forget to complement his sex moves and his package. All men have insecurity about their penises – whether it be big or small. It could always be longer, or fatter, or shorter, or something else. They aren’t that different than women! Give him a confidence boost every once in a while. If you found a particular sex move pleasurable, say so. It will really make a big difference. However, you don’t have to go through great lengths and lie. If you don’t find sex pleasurable with him, don’t be afraid to guide him. He’ll find it a huge turn on that you know what you want. Furthermore, don’t say that his package is huge when it really isn’t. Let’s face it, he’ll know you’re lying. Instead, focus on more positive aspects of your sex life.

Try some dirty talk once in a while. This lets him experience what you are experiencing during sex. When he imagines it good enough, he’ll feel it too. Make sure that you describe the experience specifically in terms of the five senses. Describe what you see, what you hear, what you feel , what you smell and taste. It is all part of the experience. This lets you describe the experience subjectively and internally. Make him feel your body as you talk. Make sure that you incorporate your voice and look while you are talking. Speak emotionally, and add some passion. The more you feel the talking, the more he’ll enjoy it. Be expressive, and be sensitive to nonverbal subtleties. All of us desire expressiveness and intensity – even men. This lets him know that you enjoy it, and you’re not afraid to let him know.